Margin: Physical Energy
1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 Introduction: Excerpts from the book Margin.

a) Dr. Swenson's argument is that "a large percentage of Americans are sadly out of shape and have diminished physical reserves because of poor conditioning. Others, such as mothers of newborns and those who work two jobs, are chronically sleep-deprived. Still others suffer from chronic "biscuit poisoning." These three factors - poor conditioning, sleep deprivation, and obesity - constitute a physical energy desert where no margin can grow."
b) When we lack margin we feel under rested and overwhelmed. With no strength left for our own needs, let alone the needs of others, we put our tiredness to bed hoping tomorrow will be a stronger day." (Margin, p. 95)

1. Why is margin in physical energy important? Because we lack margin we have no energy to give to relationships with God, self and others simply because we over-eat (or eat poorly), under sleep (truly rest), and under-exercise.

2. In which of the following areas do you need to find margin?

a. Your eating habits?
b. Your sleep habits?
c. Your exercise habits?

3. How important is physical energy to you?

4. What are some ways we can get our physical energy back?

5. Read Deut 34:7 and Joshua 14:10-12

a. How do you compare health wise to these guys?
b. What do you think may have attributed to their good health?

i. Read Exodus 15:26 None of these diseases would plague the Israelites.
ii. 40 years of walking around would definitely help the cardio.
iii. A strict diet of what only God would allow you to eat or provide for you to eat would definitely cause a person to be healthier.

6. Read 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24

a. Do you think God is concerned with our physical fitness and condition? Why or why not?
b. What are your personal concerns about your physical energy level?

7. How can we get physical energy back?"

8. What are the factors that will protect our physical energy?

9. Discuss the following statement: Dr. Swenson writes, "The three problem areas when it comes to the erosion of our physical margin are sleep, obesity and exercise. Progress brings technology, affluence, and education, but not the kind of inner discipline necessary to maintain sound physical health. In some ways progress is too easy on us. Progress provides electricity and artificial lighting, without regard for the requirement of sleep. It caters food in overabundance, but without regard for the requirement of restraint. And it supplies transportation and convenience, but without regard for the requirement of physical activity. As a result, we sleep too little, eat too much, and move hardly at all." (Margin, page 96)

10. What are some practical steps we can take to restore margin in physical energy?

a. Take personal responsibility
b. Gain physical margin through emotional margin
c. Change your habits

11. Read 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

a. How does it make you feel to know that your body is the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit?
b. What is one change you need to make in order to increase your physical energy?

12. Read James 1:23 How would this verse apply to our physical exercise, our rest and our diet?

13. Read James 4:17 How does this verse apply to us regarding the way we take care of ourselves physically?

Conclusion: James is filled with advice on applying truth to our life:

a) We must persevere under trial (1:12). Remember that change will not be easy.
b) We will be tempted by our own evil desires (1:14). Anytime we choose a path, we will find opposition and the greatest opposition will usually be from within.
c) If we merely listen to what is true, but do not do it, we are self-deceived. (1:26)
d) Remember that my beliefs lead to thought; thought leads to action (word or deed); actions turn into habits; habits turn into character; character leads to destiny.

Margin: Emotional Energy

Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me - watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you will to live freely and lightly." Matthew 11: 28-30 (The Message)

1. What does an emotionally drained person look like to you?
2. What are some of the things in our lives that drain our emotional energy?
3. Read Mark 6:31-56 a. What are some of the factors in these 24 hours that had drained Jesus and the disciples emotionally?

b. Which of these emotionally draining events can you relate to the most and why?
c. How do you think the apostles felt when Jesus told them to feed the huge crowd? Stressed, Confused, Overloaded?
d. Read Mark 6:31

i. What kind of emotional impact does rest and quiet have upon you?
ii. Where do you go when you want to get rested and spend some time in peace and quiet?

4. How do you maintain emotional energy?
5. Read Mark 6:31 What does getting away with Jesus look like for you?

a. Naturalist: Naturalists Draw near to God through nature
b. Sensate: Sensates draw near to God through the senses
c. Caregiver: Caregivers draw near to God through caring for and serving others
d. Traditionalist: Traditionalists draw near to God through ritual and symbol
e. Enthusiast: Enthusiasts draw near to God through celebration and mystery
f. Contemplative: Contemplatives draw near to God through personal adoration and heartfelt devotion
g. Ascetics: Ascetics draw near to God through solitude and simplicity
h. Intellectual: Intellectuals draw near to God through their minds
i. Activists: Activists draw near to God through bringing about social change

6. On a practical level how do you replenish your emotional energy?

a. Live in Community - Cultivate social supports.

i. Acts 2:42-47
ii. How does your Christian community replenish your emotional energy?

b. Reconcile relationships-If there is no peace it drains you

i. Colossians 3:12-14
ii. Is there any relationship that you need to fix to have peace?

c. Serve One Another-Instead of all about me it's about helping others

i. Galatians 5:13-15
ii. Who is someone you would like to help or serve this week?

d. Rest- your body needs rest

i. Exodus 34:21
ii. When is the last time you took a day to rest? What did you do?

e. Laugh- laughter is a contagious thing. A cheerful heart is great medicine.

i. Proverbs 17:22
ii. What is it that makes you laugh the most?

f. Cry-- Its ok to cry, it is a natural expression of our emotions

i. John 11:35 (Real Men do cry)
ii. Why are we embarrassed when we cry?

g. Create Appropriate Boundaries

i. Mark 4:36
ii. What is one area that you need to create boundaries?

h. Envision a Better Future- What does God have planned for you?

i. Jeremiah 29:11
ii. What do you think God's vision is for you?

i. Offer Thanks-Count your blessings

i. Colossians 3:15
ii. What are you most thankful for?

j. Grant Grace- Show mercy it could save you from heartache

i. Matthew 7:2
ii. Who besides Jesus has been most merciful to you in your life?

k. Be Rich in Faith-living by faith is an adventure.

i. Galatians 2:20
ii. In what ways are you living by faith?

l. Hold Fast to Hope-Be sure of what you believe

i. Hebrews 11:1
ii. Are you able to defend what you believe about God?

m. Above all, Love…

i. 1 John 3:16-18
ii. How do you feel when a fellow Christian shows love to you?

Conclusion:
1. Remember Margin is the space between our load and our limits.
2. Margin is the amount allowed beyond that which is needed.
3. Don't allow your emotional energy to be depleted.
4. Build in the margin needed and allow yourself to be recharged.

Margin:
The Art of Setting Limits April 22, 2007

1. What is the longest period of time you have ever gone without sleep?

2. Read Luke 2:52

a. In which of the areas that Jesus grew in, do you need to grow the most?
b. Why?

3. Read Matthew 14:12-13

a. How do you react to distressing or bad news?

4. Read Matthew 14:22-23

a. How has time spent in prayer benefited you in times of sorrow?
b. Discuss the following statement…Jesus knew his limits and lived by his limits.

5. Margin is the space between our load and our limits. It is the amount allowed beyond that which is needed.

a. What are some of the conditions in life that devour margin in our lives?
b. What are some areas that you lack margin?
c. What are some areas that you have margin built in?
d. What are some signs that you give when you have "reached your limit?"
e. How do you know when you have reached your personal limit?
f. What are some ways we can set proper limits or make sure that margin is built into our lives?

6. In the Message we read Matthew 11: 28-30: Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me, get away with me and you will recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me. Watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you will to live freely and lightly."

a. Why do you think people (we) are so tired now days, especially with all the progress we've made in the last 100 years?
b. What is it that wears you out the most and why?
c. Why does religion cause us to burn out?
d. How does coming to Jesus give us real rest?
e. How do you deal with the pressures and heaviness of life?

7. Do you think you have proper margin in your life? Why or why not?

8. In what ways has progressed affected margin in your life?

9. What happens in your home when you sit down to eat dinner with the family and the phone rings or your get an instant message?

10. What is one thing you plan to do this week that will help you put margin back into your life?

Conclusion:

1. The goal of this study is to restore emotional, physical, financial and time reserves to overloaded lives.
2. We must learn to identify our personal limits or bandwidth so that we can set appropriate limits.
3. The problem with margin-less living is that we have pain caused by margin-less living and this is caused by progress, problems, stress and overload.
4. Discerning Christians have always known that God is not impressed with our wealth, education, or power.
5. Jeremiah 9:23-24 and 10:23. Nevertheless, we have labored eagerly in those fields. What if, instead, we were eager to being measuring our progress not by our wealth but by our virtue; not by our education but by our humility; and not by our power but by our meekness?
6. As we go through this series about margin. All of us will benefit as we learn to put proper balance and limits in our lives. 7. Let's pray for wisdom and insight as we seek to have a Godly perspective of margin in our lives.

A New Way of Seeing Things
Acts 10:1-11:18 April 15, 2007

1. What is one thing in your life you have firmly believed and then later on realized it was not true?

2. Read Acts 10:1-11:18

a. How do you normally respond when your convictions are challenged?
b. Why was the vision so challenging to Peter?
c. In what ways do you identify with Peter?
d. What do you do when you read the word of God and your previous understanding of a scripture is challenged?

3. In looking at the life of Cornelius, what do you admire most about him?

4. Why do you think God gave Peter the vision 3 times?

5. How quickly do you respond when hear a word from the Lord?

6. Discuss the following statement .

a. As a disciple of Christ we sometimes wrestle with our convictions on certain matters, because truth has nothing to hide. Why or why not?
b. What are some of the truths from God's word that causes you to wrestle with some of your convictions?

7. When Peter received a new understanding he was willing to act upon it, what does this tell about his heart?

a. What were the new understandings that Peter was receiving from the Lord?
b. Read Phil. 3:16… How does this passage apply to us today?
c. What are some areas that you need help in being obedient to the Lord?
d. Let's take some time to pray about these things.

8. Why is change such an important ingredient in the life of a Christian?

9. Look at and discuss the progression of Peter and the believers understanding.

1st revelation is I (Peter) shouldn't call any man impure or unclean. Acts 10:28 28 He said to them: "You are well aware that it is against our law for a Jew to associate with a Gentile or visit him. But God has shown me that I should not call any man impure or unclean.
2nd Revelation is God accepts those from all nations who fear him and do what is right. (Peter realizes, God loves the Gentiles too) Acts 10:34-35 Then Peter began to speak: "I now realize how true it is that God does not show favoritism but accepts men from every nation who fear him and do what is right.
3rd Revelation (The brothers realize…God loves the Gentiles too) Acts 11:18 18 When they heard this, they had no further objections and praised God, saying, "So then, God has granted even the Gentiles repentance unto life."

10. When change comes, criticism normally follows, just like in Acts 11:2-3, how do you personally deal with criticism?

11. Change is normally a result of a conviction. Do your convictions move you to continually be changed by the word? Why or why not?

Conclusion:

a. When Peter received his revelation he had a hard time understanding.
b. 3 times the Lord showed it to him.
c. Although the revelation from God was different from what he believed he was unwilling to argue with God. He accepted the word from God.
d. We in the same way must listen to the word of God and accept it.
e. The word of God always requires change in our lives.
f. We must be willing to change to the will of God.
g. We must realize that criticism will come our way.
h. We must stand firm in our convictions.

The Last Deception

1. How do you feel when you have been deceived?

2. Read Matthew 27:50-66

a. As a Christian, how do you know that we have not been deceived about the resurrection of Christ?

3. What would you say to a skeptic who says, the eyewitnesses hallucinated?

a. 1 Corinthians 15:6… 500 witnesses. It's very unlikely, if not impossible for more then 500 people to have the same hallucination.

4. What would you say if someone said Jesus really didn't die on the cross?

a. If Jesus didn't die, the Roman Soldiers would not have done their job.
b. John 19:34… blood and water flowed forth… medically indicating that Jesus had already died.

5. What would you say if they said Jesus body was stolen?

a. The enemies of Jesus took several steps to make sure the body was not stolen. Matthew 27:62-66
b. The soldiers at the tomb would not sleep for fear of death.

6. What would you say if someone said… Everyone went to the wrong tomb?

a. The women observed where Jesus' body was laid only a few days earlier.
b. Peter and John ran to the tomb and it would be unlikely that they would have made the same mistake.
c. If Jesus body were still in its correct tomb, his enemies could have produced the body immediately. Even if everyone went to the wrong tomb, Joseph of Arimathea, the owner of the tomb, would have corrected them.

7. How would you answer the skeptic who says that Jesus was a mythological figure?

a. Evidence of many written documents from the first century including 39 ancient sources in addition to the New Testament and early church leaders.

8. How would you answer the skeptic who said Jesus was just a man?

a. The miracles convinced people that Jesus was more than just a mere man.
b. More than one hundred prophecies found in the Old Testament were fulfilled in Jesus Christ. Jesus predicted he would suffer, die and rise again, months before his crucifixion.

9. How would you answer the skeptic who says, the witnesses were unreliable?

a. The first witnesses to the tomb were women. During the time of Jesus a woman's testimony was considered worthless.
b. If early believers wanted to fabricate the resurrection, they would have come up with witnesses who had political and religious influence in their community, not women who were not considered to be a reliable witness.

10. What would you say to some would who said, The resurrection is just a fabricated story?

a. Would you be willing die for a lie? Why or why not?
b. Almost all of the apostles died a martyr's death.
c. For all of the apostles as well as thousands of others to die for a lie would be very unlikely.

Conclusion:

1. There are many skeptics in the world.
2. Maybe you have wondered about some of these yourself.
3. Be assured that the tomb was empty 3 days after his death and is still empty to this day.
4. Our hope is in a resurrected living Lord, not a dead hero.

Looking from the other side
Luke 16:19-31

1. What are some of the epitaphs you have seen and read in the cemetery?

2. What would you like your epitaph to read?

3. Read Luke 16:19-31

a. How do the lives of the rich man and Lazarus compare with each other on earth?
b. How about after death?
c. From this account what do you see as a determining factor for someone to enter heaven? V. 30-31
d. Why do you think it is so difficult for people to be convinced of God's ways?

4. What are some things you would like people to say about you when die?

5. Read the following scriptures that would be and some are great Bible epitaphs.

a. Gen 5:24 Enoch walked with God; then he was no more, because God took him away.
b. Gen 6:9-10 Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked with God.
c. James 2:23 And the scripture was fulfilled that says, "Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness," and he was called God's friend.
d. 2 Kings 18:5-7 Hezekiah trusted in the LORD, the God of Israel. There was no one like him among all the kings of Judah, either before him or after him. He held fast to the LORD and did not cease to follow him; he kept the commands the LORD had given Moses. And the LORD was with him; he was successful in whatever he undertook.
e. Acts 13:22 I have found David son of Jesse a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.'
f. Ps 78:72 And David shepherded them with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led them.
g. Job 1:1 In the land of Uz there lived a man whose name was Job. This man was blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil.

6. Read 2 Peter 1:5-9

a. Which of the qualities do you see as your strengths?
b. Which of these qualities do you see as your weakness?
c. What are you actively doing to make sure all of these qualities are increasing measure in your life?

7. Do you feel like you are effective or ineffective in your walk with Christ? Why or why not?

8. If Jesus had a personal one on one talk with our bible study group, what do you think he would say are the strengths of our group? What about our weaknesses?

9. Do you think that most people live like heaven is a real place? Why or why not?

10. How do you feel about discussing the issue of the judgment with friends?

Conclusion:

1. To live like heaven is a real place we must think about the other side of eternity.
2. We must think about what people are going to say about us when we die.
3. We must live like heaven is a real place in order to be the most effective witness for Christ.
4. Heaven is a real place. Let's don't let anyone miss out!!

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Love 2 Peter 1:3-11

1. What is the most loving act anyone has ever shown toward you?.... Or go around the room and ask everyone to give a one word definition of love.
2. Read Lev. 19:18 What does it mean to love your neighbor as you love yourself?
3. Read Matthew 22:37-39

a. Why do you think loving your neighbor is 2nd to loving God?
b. Discuss this statement…"the only true measurement of whether you love God is the way you love your neighbor".

4. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 In this lesson we will be discussing Agape Love - which means unconditional, sacrificial love
5. Love is patient: it never gives up.

a. Why do you think patience is such an important characteristic of love?
b. What do you do to correct yourself, when you find yourself being impatient?

6. Love is kind: it cares more for others than self.

a. What is the kindest thing you have ever experienced or seen?
b. What does a kind person look like to you?

7. Love does not envy: it doesn't want what it doesn't have.

a. What are some of the things that people are envious over?
b. How have you experienced victory over envy?

8. Love does not boast: it doesn't strut.

a. How do feel when you are around someone who is always boasting about themselves?
b. How do you deal with pride when it keeps on coming out?

9. Love is not rude: it doesn't force itself on others.

a. What are some words or actions that are rude to you?
b. How do you handle rudeness in your house hold?

10. Love is not self-seeking: it isn't always me first.

a. What do you do when you find yourself being self centered?
b. Who is the most selfless person you know?

11. Love is not easily angered: it doesn't fly off the handle.

a. What are some things that cause you to fly off the handle?
b. What would your family say about your anger?

12. Love keeps no record of wrongs: it doesn't keep score of the sins of others.

a. Why do we want to keep score of the sins of others?
b. What can we do to forget them?

13. Love does not delight in evil: it's never glad about injustice.

a. What are some of the injustices of the world that hurt your heart?
b. Take some time to pray over the injustices of the world.

14. Love rejoices with the truth: it takes pleasure whenever the truth wins.

a. Discuss the statement… Truth has nothing to hide.
b. What is your reaction when you find out you are wrong about something?

15. Love always protects: puts up with anything.

a. How do you feel when you are being protected by someone you love?
b. What do you do to protect your relationships?

16. Love always trusts: it believes.

a. How does your love cause you to believe in God?
b. How does your love cause you to believe in those whom you love?

17. Love always hopes: it always looks for the best.

a. Are you an encourager or discourager in your relationships?
b. How does optimism come into play with this verse?

18. Love always perseveres: it keeps going to the end.

a. How has perseverance affected they way you love people?
b. What can you do to strengthen your resolve to love people and persevere even when you want to quit?

19. Love never fails: it never dies.

a. Do you believe love never dies?
b. What examples have you seen where love never dies?

Conclusion:

1. 1 Corinthians 13 is a very practical chapter.
2. It gives us practically the recipe for loving relationships.
3. I would encourage all of us, to look at this word from the Lord and learn it and put it into practice.
4. Remember, "The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love." (Galatians 5:6b)
5. Don't forget that Jesus said, "Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." (John 13:34-35)
6. Don't forget to live like heaven is a real place.

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Brotherly Love 2 Peter 1:7

1. What do you know about the city of Philadelphia? If you have ever been there what was your impression? Is it really the city of "Brotherly love"?

2. There are 4 words in the Greek for love, the one we are dealing with today is Phileo. It's the most general word for love. In the Greek it means brotherly love, the love of a brother or sister. Notice that we moved from godliness (god-likeness) to brotherly kindness which then flows into Love.

3. Read Romans 12:9-13

a. What part does devotion play in brotherly love?
b. What are some ways we can honor each other?
c. How does it make you feel to share with people who are in need?
d. How can insincerity become a barrier to Philadelphia love?

4. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:9-10

a. What have you been personally taught by God about loving your brothers and sisters in Christ?
b. How has brotherly love been shown to you in times past?
c. What changes will you need to make personally to show more Philadelphia love?

5. Read Hebrews 13:1-3

a. Why do you think we are encouraged to "keep on loving each other as brothers"?
b. What are some creative ways to show brotherly love to strangers and to those who are in prison?

6. Read 1 Peter 1:22

How do you know if some one really has sincere love for fellow Christians?

7. Read Acts 4:32- 5:11

a. What do you think the atmosphere was like in the church at Jerusalem?
b. Have you ever seen that kind of giving or sharing before in the body of Christ?
c. Discuss the difference in Barnabas' attitude compared to Ananias and Sapphira.

8. Read James 2:8

How do you keep the "royal law"?

9. What are some barriers to Philadelphia love?

a. insincerity - Romans 12:9; 1 Peter 1:22
b. selfishness; self-centered - Romans 12:10
c. Improper motives - Acts 5
d. Love only with words - 1 John 3:18
e. Evil behavior - 1 John 3:12-13

Conclusion:
1. We have all experienced brotherly love from time to time.
2. I'm sure we can all improve in the way we show brotherly love to those around us and with in the church.
3. Remember that people look at us. They can tell if we are genuinely Christians by the way we love each other, but of course that's next weeks lesson. John 13:34-35
4. So love one another as brothers and sisters in Christ and it will make a huge statement to the world around us.

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Godliness 2 Peter 1:5-8

1. Who is the godliest person you have ever known? What about their life attracted you to them?

2. Read 2 Peter 1:5-6

a. What is a good definition for godliness? Godliness: when the thought of God controls your whole life.
b. Read Mark 12:30 How does this verse apply to becoming a godly person?

3. Read 1 Timothy 3:1-16

a. The characteristics and character qualities of elders and deacons and their wives, should be a goal for all of our lives. Agree or disagree… Why?
b. Which of these characteristics of godliness do you have the greatest victory in?
c. Which of these characteristics do you struggle with the most?
d. How has the mystery of godliness affected your life?

4. Read 1 Timothy 4:7-8

a. Why do we need training to be godly?
b. What are some ways you can train yourself to be godly?

5. Read 1 Timothy 6:3-5

What happens when people think that godliness is a way to gain financially?

6. Read 1 Timothy 6:6-10

a. Why is godliness with contentment great gain?
b. What happens when we are trying to be godly but we are not content?

7. Read 1 Timothy 6:11

What does pursuing godliness look like to you?

8. Read 2 Timothy 3:1-5

a. What are some "forms of godliness" you have seen or experienced?
b. Why is a "form of godliness" so powerless?
c. What are some ways we can keep from falling into that trap?

9. Read 2 Timothy 3:12

Have you ever been persecuted for being a Christian? If so could you share your story?

10. Read Genesis 5:24;6:9

a. Enoch and Noah walked with God.
b. What does walking with God look like to you?
c. How has this lesson helped you deepen your conviction to walk in godliness?

Conclusion:
1. Living like heaven is a real place requires that we live Godly lives.
2. Remember the definition for Godliness: when the thought of God controls your whole life.
3. When we live a godly life we will strive to…

a. Take captive every thought… make it obedient to Christ. 2 Cor. 10:5
b. Flee evil desires and pursue righteousness. 2 Timothy 2:22
c. Earnestly seek God. Psalm 63:1ff
d. Crucify our self and live moment by moment for Christ. Gal. 2:20

4. Pursue godliness and live for him in all you do.

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Self-control 2 Peter 1:3-11

1. In what ways does Self-control help us in our daily life?
2. Discuss this statement about Long Term Perspective; "The men and women who are the most successful in life and the most likely to move up economically are those who take the future into consideration with every decision they make in the present.
3. Give a good definition of self control. Self control is the act of controlling your self; the practice of disciplining your self to do, put into action what you believe is right.
4. Why do you think these people groups are encouraged to practice self control?

a. Elders Titus 1:8 and 1 Timothy 3:2
b. Older Men Titus 2:2
c. Young Women taught by Older women. Titus 2:5
d. Young Men Titus 2:6 5.

Read Proverbs 29:11

a. How has this been true in your life?
b. Read Proverbs 16:32… What do you do to control your temper?

6. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:4-5

a. What do you say to people who say I just can't control myself?
b. Vs. 4… says that we must know how… to control our body.

7. Read and discuss the following scriptures and discuss the benefits of self control.

a. 1 Peter 1:13… How does self control help prepare your mind?
b. Galatians 5:22-23... Since self-control is a fruit of the Spirit, what can we do to be more self controlled?
c. 1 Peter 4:7 … How does self control play a part in our prayer life?
d. 1 Peter 5:8-10 … What part does self control play in resisting the Devil?
e. Philippians 3:16… How does self control apply to this verse?
f. Matthew 23:25… What are some ways we keep from falling into the trap of Self indulgence?

8. What are some areas that we know we can have self control over by the power of God?

a. Our thoughts; 2 Corinthians 10:5
b. Our attitude; Phil 4:4
c. The Tongue; James 1:26; Proverbs 13:3; 21:23;34:13
d. Our marriage; Hebrews 13:4
e. Our Money; 1 Cor. 16:2
f. Our body or lusts of the flesh: Romans 6:11-14

Conclusion:

1. The lack of Self-control gets us into all kinds of problems.
2. I've never heard anyone say about themselves, "You know, I'm just too self controlled for my on good."
3. On the contrary, I've always heard, "I need more self control".
4. It is a fruit of the Spirit.
5. It is a natural result of growing closer to God and being filled up with the presence of God.
6. Let's spend some time in prayer asking that we will all seek and find self-control.

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Knowledge, 2 Peter 1:5-8

1. What is one thing you do not know, but you wish you did?

2. What is a good definition of knowledge?

3. What's the difference between knowledge and opinion? Knowledge is distinguished from "opinion" by its greater certainty.

4. What are some of the values of knowledge you find in these scriptures?

a. Proverbs 1:7
b. Proverbs 17:27
c. Proverbs 8:10
d. Eccl. 7:12
e. Eph. 4:14-16 f. 1 Timothy 2:3-4

5. What are some ways you can grow in your knowledge?

a. You can obey the scripture. John 7:17
b. You can study scripture… 2 Timothy 2:15
c. You can listen to someone teach…Acts 17:11… examined scripture.

1. Take notes… when you listen.
2. Use your bible as a work book…

6. What are some of the pitfalls of knowledge? 1 Corinthians 8:1-3; Hebrews 10:26

7. Why do you think there is so much "bible illiteracy among Christians?

8. Discuss this statement: In every walk of life if you want to be successful in it you have to grow in knowledge about it.

9. Read 2 Peter 3:18

a. What are some things you do on a practical level that helps you grow in the knowledge and the grace of the Lord?
b. Who is the one person in your life that challenges you or encourages you to grow in the knowledge of God? How does he or she do it?

10. Read Proverbs 2:1-6; 4:5; 15:14; 23:23

a. Why do you think that God commands us to pursue knowledge?
b. On a scale of 1-10 how important is knowledge of the word to you?

Conclusion:

1. The highest knowledge possible to man is the knowledge of God.
2. There are a lot of people who have good morals but don't have knowledge of the Son of God.
3. Knowledge of God changes people's hearts and attitudes.
4. Knowledge of God can bring you into intimacy with the father.
5. Knowledge can save you from making lots of mistakes.
6. Knowledge only comes to those who are willing to take the time and effort to dig for it.
7. Knowledge is a great gift that we need to continually seek.

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Moral Excellence , 2 Peter 1:5

1. In what ways have morals changed in America since you were a child?

2. Read 2 Peter 1:5

a. How would you describe "moral excellence" or "goodness" Moral excellence means, "good and correct behavior".
b. Why do you think this is the first one to be added to your faith?

3. Read 2 Peter 1:5

a. Which of these virtues is the hardest for you to get hold of?
b. Which of these virtues is the easiest?
c. What are some of the "vices" of the world that you have overcome because of Christ?

4. What motivates you to add to your faith "moral excellence"?

5. Read 1 John 3:3

a. What do you think it's going to be like when you personally see Jesus the first time?
b. What do you think you will say to him?
c. What do you think he might say to you?

6. Read 2 Corinthians 7:1

a. How does reverence for God motivate us to live holy?

7. Read 2 Peter 3:13-15

a. What is it about heaven that you look forward to the most?

8. Discuss this definition: "Moral excellence is having the courage to live out your faith".

9. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:7-8 What impact does this verse have on your life style?

10. Read 1 Peter 1:14-16

a. What does holiness look like to you?
b. What does holiness look like to God?
c. How has your "life choices" helped you obey this verse?Complete surrender to his Lordship.

11. Read Deuteronomy 30:15-20

a. What was God asking them to make a choice about?
b. Why does God give us the choice to choose?

12. So how good is good enough?

a. Read Romans 1:17

1. What does it mean; the righteous will live by faith?

13. Read Romans 6:1-14

a. How does this verse encourage us to live with moral excellence?

Conclusion:

1. Moral excellence is having the courage to live out your faith.
2. I think the thing that Satan uses the most to discourage people is so called "Christians" who refuse to live out their faith.
3. On the other hand, the one thing that will encourage Christians as well as non believers more than anything is observing a Christian who has the faith to live like Jesus called us to live.
4. This week add to your faith…."Moral Excellence" have the courage to live out your faith in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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Faith: No Longer Driven, 2 Peter 1:5

1. What do you do when you seem to be lacking in faith?

2. What is faith? Hebrews 11:1

a. How would you describe your faith to someone?
b. What are some of the reasons you believe in God?

3. What are some things that faith does?

a. Used as a weapon… Ephesians 6:16
b. Essential in prayer…James 1:5-6
c. Justification… Romans 5:1
d. Secures our salvation…John 5:24; 3:16;

4. What are some characteristics of little faith?

a. Worry… Matthew 6:30-34
b. Fear… Matthew 8:26-27
c. Doubt... Matthew 14:31

1. Little faith will allow you to sink in the water and cause you to flounder in doubt.

d. Misunderstanding the word of God… Matthew 16:8

5. What is the difference between mustard seed faith and little faith?

a. Matthew 17:20-21
b. Mustard seed faith will germinate and grow into a plant that will sustain the weight of a bird.
c. It will flourish with limitless possibilities.

6. What are some of your favorite faith passages and why?

7. Who is your favorite faith filled person in the bible?

8. Who do you know that is filled full of faith and the Holy Spirit? What about is it about their life that impacts you?

9. Read 2 Peter1:5 What are you personally doing to add to your faith?

10. Take time to read these scriptures about trusting in the Lord.

a. Psalms 37:3; Psalms 37:5; 115:11;118:8
b. Proverbs 3:5
c. Isaiah 26:4; 50:10

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The Self Syndrome, Hebrews 12:4-29

1. What is the bitterest thing you have ever tasted?

2. How do you feel when you are around some who is completely self focused or self absorbed?

3. Read Hebrews 12:4-11

a. What are some ways that God disciplines those he loves?
b. What have been some of your reactions when God has disciplined you in the past?
c. What are some of the success stories you have had because of being disciplined by God?
d. Why do we sometimes get in the feeling sorry for our self mode when we are being disciplined by God?
e. So how can we get to the point that we will accept God's discipline in our lives with out going through the "woe is me" syndrome?

4. Read Hebrews 12:12-14a

a. What would people say about you in the area of getting along with others?
b. What are some of the pitfalls that come your way if you are hard to get along with?
c. What are some ways that we can become people who help one another out in difficult situations?

5. Read Hebrews 12:14

a. What does an unholy life look like to you? Gal. 5:19-21; Rom. 1:18-32
b. What does a "holy" person look like to you? Col. 3:12-14
c. What are the benefits of living a holy life? Gal: 5:22-24

6. Read Hebrews 12:15

a. Why was Esau so bitter?
b. What are some reasons that people become bitter?
c. How has bitterness affected you in you life?
d. Read Eph. 4:31… How do you get rid of bitterness?
e. What role does grace play in getting rid of bitterness?
f. In what ways have you extended grace and it helped rid yourself of bitterness?

Conclusion:

1. Be extremely careful that you do not trade away God's lifelong gift in order to satisfy a short-term appetite.
2. We need to accept God's discipline as his showing love and concern for us just like we discipline our own children.
3. We need to get along with people and help each other out.
4. Our goal should always be to live a holy life and let the love of Christ be seen in us.
5. We must receive God's grace in the way he intended in order to short circuit bitterness, anger and rage in our lives that comes from being self absorbed.

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Without Hesitation, Hebrews 10:19-31; 4:14-16
Living completely in God's presence is not only possible, it's expected.

1. Who is the one person that you know that you can always talk to no matter what and what makes them so approachable?

2. Read Hebrews 4:14-16

a. When you realize that Jesus knows and can sympathize what you have been going through in this life, how does it make you feel?
b. What are some of the needs you have had in your life that Jesus has taken care of?
c. What are some of the ways that we "hold firmly" to the faith we profess?

3. Read Hebrews 10:19-21

a. How is going before God now different than what the High Priest did under the Law of Moses experienced? Exodus 28:1ff
b. Why can we confidently come before God?
c. What does living in the presence of God look like to you?

4. Read Hebrews 10:22; Without hesitation, draw near to God. (We have significant privileges associated with our new life)

a. What are some of the dynamics that must happen for you to be in a "close" relationship with someone?
b. What are some ways that we can draw near or get closer to God?
c. What kind of security clearance would a person have to have to be able to walk in to see the President of the United States anytime he or she wished?
d. Read James 4:8 What is the promise in this verse? We have security clearance because of Jesus.
e. Note: References to hearts sprinkled to cleanse and body washed suggest a direct connection/reference to baptism/the beginning of the Christian life. Acts 2:38: Acts 22:16; Romans 6:3-4; 1 Cor. 12:13 Gal 3:27: Col. 2:12; 1 Peter 3:21

5. Read Hebrews 10:23; Without hesitation keep a firm grip on hope.

a. What is it about Jesus that you profess to the world?
b. Jesus is faithful.

1. What are some qualities of someone who is faithful?
2. When is it hardest for you to be faithful?

c. Read Romans 5:5 How does our hope keep us from being disappointed?

6. Read Hebrews 10:24 Without hesitation consider one another.

a. How does it make you feel when people consider your feelings?
b. What are some ways that you have been spurred on toward love and good deeds?
c. What is one of the most loving deeds anyone has done for you?

7. Read Hebrews 10:25 Without hesitation encourage one another.

a. In what ways do our meetings together as a whole church encourage you?
b. What are some of the benefits you receive when you meet together as a 2 42 group?
c. What do you do when someone is discouraged in their walk with the Lord?
d. How have you been encouraged in the past to continue your walk with God?
e. Read Hebrews 3:13 How can we practically apply this verse today?
f. Go around the room and encourage the person in the Lord that is seated to your left.

Conclusion:

1. To live in the presence of God has much to do with our understanding as well as with our hearts.
2. God wants a close and intimate relationship with you.
3. God is the most approachable and the most available one in our lives.
4. We must without any hesitation come before him with hearts full of love and adoration.
5. Without any hesitation we must live completely in God's presence.
6. It is not only possible, but it's expected.

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Incredible Expectation, Hebrews 5:11-6:3

1. How old were you when you first learned all the books of the bible?

2. Read Hebrews 5:11-6:3

a. God has planted within each of us the seed of a teacher.
b. Have you ever felt the seed of a teacher within you?
c. If you felt this, what did you do with it?

3. To be a teacher meant to the ancient mind that one was able to think and to act maturely.

a. How would you describe a mature Christian?
b. What are some ways that God has helped you mature in Christ?

4. When a divine expectation is realized it has the power to release the potential within.

a. Has there ever been a time in your life that some one may have said to you…. I believe you would be a great ___________ and then you said oh ok, maybe I could?
b. If that has ever happened to you, what were the results?
c. How does it make you feel to know that God has planted within you divine potential to teach and share the good news with others?

5. We must Learn the basics of the word of God (5:11).

a. What are some of the basics that you think a person needs to know from the word?
b. How did you learn the basics?

6. Train yourself to discriminate between truth and error; good and bad teaching (5:14).

a. What are some good bible study habits that help us to distinguish truth from error?
b. What is your favorite way to study the bible?

7. Leave childish ways behind and let yourself grow up (6:1).

a. What are some of the childish ways that you have left behind in your spiritual walk?
b. How do you feel about your present spiritual growth and development?

8. Please look at the chart below and share how these choices have affected your walk with God.

One way to evaluate spiritual maturity is by looking at the choices we make.
The writer of Hebrews notes many of the ways those choices change with personal growth.

9. How would God describe your study habits in the word?

10. If God were describing you, would he describe you as a slow learner of His ways? Why or why not

a. What are some of the things that you do that helps you to mature in Christ?
b. What are some of the subjects that you are presently curious about or that you are studying right now?

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Warnings of Climbing Higher

1. In this lesson we are going to discuss some of the warnings of climbing higher and living at the highest level, so what are some of the different kinds of "warnings" you have received in your life?

2. Read Hebrews 2:1-4 (The Danger of Drifting)

a. When if ever have you "drifted from the faith"?

1. What caused you to start drifting?
2. What brought you back on course?

b. What is it about Jesus that keeps us from drifting?
c. In what ways can we practically pay more attention to the teachings of Christ?
d. Read Deut. 6:10-12… How can this verse keep us from drifting today?

3. Read Hebrews 3:7-19 (The Danger of Unbelief)

a. Why do you think the Israelites were so unfaithful and so unbelieving of the Lord?
b. What are some of the circumstances or life events that sometimes cause us to harden our hearts toward the Lord?
c. How does it affect you when a brother or sister turns away from God?
d. How do you feel when you know that you are walking in unbelief rather than in faith?
e. Read James 1:2-4 how has the testing of your faith helped you in your life?

4. Read Hebrews 5:11-6:3 (The Danger of Not Maturing)

a. If God were describing you, would he describe you as a slow learner of His ways? Why or why not
b. What lengths would you go to, to help your son or daughter who was not developing physically? How about spiritually?
c. What are some of the things that you do that helps you to mature in Christ?
d. What are some of the subjects that you are presently curious about or that you are studying right now?

5. Read Hebrews 10:26-39 (The Danger of Drawing Back)

a. What kind of attitudes come up when we get involved in willful and deliberate sin?
b. Why is it so easy to fall back into old sinful habits?
c. How do you keep from falling back?
d. Read 1 Peter 1:3-9; 2 Peter 3:8-13

1. How do these verses encourage you to keep on living for God rather than shrinking back in fear or discouragement?

e. Read James 5:8; 1 Peter 5:10; Revelation 3:11

1. What do think "just a little while" is to Jesus and his timing?
2. If you died tonight, what would Jesus say to you when you met him?

6. Read Hebrews 12:25-29 (The Danger of refusing God)

a. Why do people refuse God?
b. Of all the kingdoms and governments of the earth, which ones do you think are indestructible?
c. How does it make you feel to be a part of a kingdom that cannot be destroyed?
d. What are you the most thankful for about the kingdom of God?

Conclusion:

1. As we strive to follow Jesus, let's be sure that we are not simply religious.

2. To do this…

a. We must maintain our focus on the Christ.
b. We must not neglect the salvation that comes only through Christ.
c. We must be careful to do everything in faith and not shrink during times of testing.
d. We must be a person who is making a conscious effort to mature in Christ.
e. We must never draw back or fall back into the way we once lived, because He's coming in …. "Just a little while"
f. Finally we must never refuse God at any point or at any time because he has given us unlimited access into His Kingdom.

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Adrenaline for the Soul! Hebrews 12:3

"Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we're in. Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed- he could put up with anything along the way: cross, shame, whatever. And now he's there, in the place of honor, right alongside God. When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he plowed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls!" The Message, Hebrews 12:2-3

Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we're in.

1. When you look at Jesus, what kind of a man do you see?
2. How does it make you feel to know that Jesus came here to give his life for you and me?

Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed- he could put up with anything along the way: cross, shame, whatever.

3. How does keeping your eye on the goal help us to endure?
4. When tough times come your way what keeps you walking in the path of the Lord?
5. When you think of Jesus on the cross how does it make you feel?

And now he's there, in the place of honor, right alongside God.

6. What do you imagine the place of honor along side God looks like?
7. Who have you known in your life that in your opinion has honored God with their life?

When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he plowed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls!

8. What are some things that cause you to struggle in your faith?
9. How does the story of Jesus help us when we struggle with our faith?
10. Read about the crucifixion in John 18,19,20
11. Please get some bread and juice and remember the Lord together as a small group.
12. Pass the bread around and allow everyone to share what the Body of Christ means to them.
13. Pass the cup around and share what the blood of Jesus means to you.

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Casting Shadows, Hebrews 1:10

"The law is only a shadow of the good things that are coming-not the realities themselves. For this reason it can never, by the same sacrifices repeated endlessly year after year, make perfect those who draw near to worship." Hebrews 10:1

1. Discuss this statement: If I live in the shadows of hand-me-down religion then the best I can do is pass on used-up religion.

2. Look at this chart and discuss the living in the Shadow verses living in Christ.

3. In what ways have you lived in the shadow of your parent's faith?

4. How can we sometimes live in the shadow of religious practice without a complete commitment to Christ?

a. The only way to cast a spiritual influence is to stand in the presence of the Son.
b. If you are only passing on rituals and traditions then you are not passing on faith.

5. What are some right things we can do for the wrong reason?

a. Church attendance, communion, baptism, serving, preaching, sharing your faith, giving your tithe.
b. All of these things are right, but can be done for the wrong reason.

6. What do you do when you find yourself doing the right things for the wrong reason?

7. Read Galatians 2:1-17

a. Why was Paul so angry with Peter's hypocrisy?
b. Why do think Peter reverted back to his "old ways" of Judaism?
c. Why do we sometimes revert back to our old ways of religiosity?
d. What do you do when you find yourself reverting back to your "old ways" of just doing church, or legalistic righteousness?
e. In what ways do your friends and family influence your religious walk?
f. At what point do I find myself reverting back to my comfort level as opposed to what I have learned what is right.

8. How can we live our lives so that we will cast a shadow of influence for Christ?

Conclusion:

1. The truth is that when the Jews believed in Christ they were living true to their spiritual heritage.
2. The truth is still that whenever we put our faith in Jesus only and seek to follow Him, we are not rejecting our religious heritage; we are being true to it.
3. To live in the Light of Christ casts a shadow that others can see and others can imitate.
4. Don't allow yourself to live in the shadows rather than the fullness of Christ.
5. Be sure to cast a shadow that looks like the image of Christ.

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Deleting the Hyphens, Hebrews 1:1-3; 12:1-3

1. Share a time when you tried to improve a recipe or you ate an "improved" recipe and it backfired.

2. Read Hebrews 1:1-3

3. Why do you think Hebrews has the discussion and teaching that Jesus is superior to all created beings?

4. Discuss this statement: Living our lives for Jesus may sound easy but every generation of Christians have been faced with the challenge of not adding anything to Jesus.

5. Here are 7 descriptive statements about Jesus. Which of these statements help you to keep Jesus in the fore front of your life and why?

a. Jesus was appointed heir of all things. Heb. 1:2 Romans 8:17
b. The universe was made through Jesus. V.2 John 1:3
c. Jesus is the radiance of God's glory. V.3 Colossians 1:16
d. Jesus is the exact representation of his being. V 3 John 14:9
e. Jesus sustains all things. V 3 Colossian 1:17
f. Jesus provides purification for sins. V 3 Heb. 7:27
g. Jesus sat down at the right hand of God. V 3 Matthew 26:64

6. How can certain religious traditions or practices hinder us when we try to follow Jesus only?

7. What is it in today's society that distracts us from following Jesus?

8. What kind of suffering have you experienced because you follow Jesus?

a. Maybe family problems because you switched churches.
b. Maybe tension from examining so called old truths that are not true at all.
c. Maybe friendships that become strained or non existent because of following Jesus only.

9. How can we follow Jesus and avoid the trap of religious traditions?

10. Read Hebrews 12:1-3

11. What are some of the things that hinder us from following Jesus?

12. What do you personally do to remind you to keep your eyes on Jesus?

13. How can we make sure that it is Jesus and only Jesus that we follow? No hyphens.

Conclusion:

1. We are sometimes tempted to abandon Christ in order to return to our old system.

a. For the Jews it was abandoning Christ for the old Judaic system.
b. This letter was written to exhort them to become mature in Christ and put away their spiritual dullness and degeneration.

2. In order to remove the hyphens I must do several things

a. First, I must place all of my confidence in the finished work of Christ in forgiveness of my sins.
b. Second, I must mature in Christ.
c. Third, I must accept whatever hardship comes with following Christ.

3. The book of Hebrews is a book we need today.

a. It was written at a time when the ages were colliding and when everything in society seemed to be shaking.
b. It was written to Christians who were wondering what was going on and what they could do about it.
c. The stability of the old was passing away, and their faith was wavering.

4. God is shaking things so that we may learn to live by faith and not by sight.

5. He wants you to build your life on the permanence of the eternal and not on the instability of the temporal.

6. Keep your eyes on Jesus; he'll never let you down.

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